Chapter 208 It’s broken! The teacher is really going to become a sister-in-law! (4.5K)


    "Uh, is this a local hot topic?" Chen Jingle asked.


    Li Beixing smiled and said, "Yes, it''s quite popular. How about it?"


    Chen Jingle was thinking with an expression: "It is certainly worthy of being recognized by everyone. After all, I am not a saint who has no desires and no desires. I just feel that being a show-off will expose myself too much and subconsciously resist. Do you think, do I have any problems?"


    Speaking of the latter, he couldn''t help but laugh, and at the same time he was a little embarrassed.


    The main reason is that he has experienced more than once the Internet exposure before, but the various problems brought about have caused him a lot of trouble, but he has been avoiding talking about them.


    The most obvious thing is the surge in private messages in the background.


    Including but not limited to personal attacks, courtship confessions, guild invitations, etc.


    The personal attack is really unsolvable. After all, the world is so big, not everyone is human, and some people are just psychologically distorted.


    As for courtship, if it’s just a woman, it’s fine, there are still many men’s problems.


    Even if a man simply wants to make friends, he thinks it is normal. Many people directly ask him how much it costs for a night, or buy him for 100,000 yuan to stay in a certain city for a month.


    The most outrageous thing is to post unhealthy photos directly.


    Hot eyes!


    Although the economic environment is not good these days, many people are unemployed and unable to find jobs, and are forced to take the edge or even go into business, they really can''t do such work.


    When he started a business with someone, he would not choose to swallow his anger even when he was wronged. Moreover, he is rich and free now, so why would you let him accept the rich woman''s steel wool?


    A psychopath!


    Then I asked him if he was interested in being an anchor or an artist.


    These two are relatively normal.


    But more people ask him if he is interested in becoming a male model.


    Do you really think he doesn''t know what a male model is?


    Next time I fool someone, can I delete the nightclub video on the homepage first?


    After being exposed, he said, "Don''t worry, we have never been caught", Cao!


    After reading a private message from Chen Jingle in the background, he basically stopped reading it for fear of dirtying his eyes.


    After hearing his words, Li Beixing broke away from the beautiful state just now, thought about it carefully, and said, "From a psychological perspective, you are called lack of identity and security."


    "Um?!"


    Chen Jingle was a little surprised and curious: "What do you say?"


    Li Beixing organized the language: "On the one hand, there is such a psychological need, hoping to gain recognition from the outside world through certain things, so as to improve one''s own self-confidence. On the other hand, the traditional culture of our people is more about advocating virtues such as mean, humility, and low-key. The two are conflicting to a certain extent.


    Then there is the shame discipline in the process of socialization. The education we receive since childhood is "shooting the first bird out of the gun", which suppresses the expression of self-worth to a certain extent. This sense of shame becomes increasingly deeply rooted in adulthood, but often we have to show ourselves. All of the above causes you to have such ambivalence, which is actually very normal. ”


    Some people say that men''s psychology is actually children''s psychology. Although this sentence is a bit one-sided and labeled, it is not without reason.


    At least worth learning from and thinking.


    Although Li Beixing has no brothers and no children for the time being, his observations of male classmates around him since childhood, the courses he learned in college, the work he worked after graduation, and the little boys in the class he came into contact with largely confirmed this statement.


    It is mainly related to the education that men receive from childhood to adulthood.


    As we all know, our education generally emphasizes that men should be strong, not cry, not show weakness, and have a sense of responsibility. The lack of emotional education has suppressed their emotional development to a certain extent, leading to the relative emotional immaturity of men.


    Of course, she has limited research on this aspect and has only taken educational psychology courses, not professional psychology graduates.


    It feels like these are more of the result of gender discipline and are not directly equated with the psychological level.


    Looking at Chen Jingle, who looked thoughtful and confused, at this moment, she suddenly had the urge to hug him, and then whispered in his ear, "It''s okay, it''s okay."


    This idea sounds a bit strange, so she is a little cowardly and dares to think but not take action.


    I don’t know why my maternal love suddenly spreads.


    However, isn’t Chen Jingle’s appropriately showing her fragile side in front of her a kind of trust?


    Thinking of this, Li Beixing felt relieved again.


    …


    Chen Jingle sighed: "You said that, I want to study psychology knowledge."


    After hearing Li Beixing''s words, he felt like he could see the blue sky through the clouds.


    It turns out that the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear.


    Although he has read a lot of books and learned a lot of new knowledge during this period, and has also gained a relatively strong body through persistent exercise, he seems to be unable to keep up with the mental core.


    In fact, many times, the power at the spiritual level is far more important and stronger than simple matter.


    A truly strong person will not be frightened by the enemy''s aggressive momentum, will not be frustrated by the setbacks that can still endure, and will not be discouraged by certain setbacks.


    Matter is immortal and can be crushed at most, while spirit can be eternal.


    Even if it is only a limited immortality.


    Decided!


    This is the next subject!


    It just so happened that he was worried about his next new subject recently. He originally wanted to continue learning some new languages, but for comparison, he felt that this knowledge in psychology would be more helpful to him.


    Just change the direction.


    Li Beixing came to his senses and said with a smile: "If you have that time and energy, you can just dabble in it. If you need help, you can ask me at any time. I still remember the course contents of my college years."


    "good!"


    Chen Jingle nodded.


    Suddenly, he reacted: "It''s broken, I forgot that there are still vegetables in the pot!"


    He quickly uncovered the lid of the pot and then breathed a sigh of relief: "Fortunately it''s not so messy!"


    Li Beixing smiled.


    Chen Jingle turned around and smiled at her, "There is a lot of gas in the kitchen. You can play with your phone outside for a while. I guess you have to wait before you can start a meal."


    It’s almost 40 minutes before middle school students get off school.


    "Okay~!"


    Li Beixing smiled and left the kitchen.


    She stood alone in the living room, with her hands behind her intertwined, her steps lightly. When she turned around, she saw Chen Jingle not seeing herself in the kitchen, so she let herself go and danced on tiptoe.


    I am happy that I have just helped Chen Jingle.


    I just stopped after a few jumps. After all, I didn''t dare to be too presumptuous, for fear of being knocked out by someone, and felt very guilty.


    Then he sat down in Chen Jingle''s rocking chair, took out his cell phone, and continued to search for the comment section just now.


    When she saw the praises, she was honored. When she saw the bad comments, her face turned dark and she wanted to scold her, but she seemed to be small and ungrateful, so she simply blocked her.


    The eyes are gone, and I silently cursed these people with unclean mouths and fell to the sky when they went out.


    Humph~!


    …


    Chen Qiyun came back from get out of class and hummed a song and jumped.


    However, when she saw Li Beixing''s car outside the yard, she was stunned and hurriedly ran into the yard.


    Before entering the door, I saw Li Beixing sitting in the hall leisurely playing with his mobile phone and eating fruit.


    "Teacher Li?!"


    Chen Qiyun widened her eyes and was incredible: "Why are you here again?"


    again?


    You said again?


    Li Beixing stopped his hand and looked at her with a smile: "What? Can''t I come? Or do you say you don''t want to see me?"


    "No, no."


    Chen Qiyun felt distressed and quickly shook her head and waved her hands, feeling inexplicably guilty.


    hateful!


    Is this the legendary bloodline suppression?


    I am the dignified Yuntianzun, and I am not weak in my life, so how could anyone do this! Could it be that there is a super emperor on the opposite side that is unparalleled?


    When Chen Jingle heard the noise outside, he leaned out from the kitchen and said, "Wait a minute, the food will be ready soon."


    "oh!"


    Chen Qiyun put down her schoolbag honestly, sat on the sofa behind Li Beixing''s side, and looked at it quietly.


    Putting aside all kinds of fantasies at the second grade level, she muttered to herself, it seems that even if the two of them were not together, they would be almost there. Otherwise, if they were alone and widowed, they would be together every day and say there was no situation, who would believe it?


    She is not a primary school student who knows nothing!


    But at this point, she couldn''t laugh anymore and no longer had the idea of ??watching the fun.


    Finally I understand what Li Beixing said at the beginning, "Even if I really become your sister-in-law, I will only be stricter with you."


    Chen Qiyun had no doubts about this.


    Before I could pass the door, my blood pressure was already there. If I really got married and moved in, wouldn’t I be able to train her like a dog?


    I can''t imagine what Li Beixing would look like in the future when he lives at Chen Jingle''s house every day.


    Finished!


    This is really a cocoon!


    Forget it, you have to face Teacher Li in class, but you have to face it after school. Maybe you won’t play with your phone or tablet in the future and you will focus on doing your homework every day.


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    My scalp is numb even if I think about it.


    …


    After all the dishes were served, Chen Jingle announced the meal!


    Chestnut roast chicken, typhoon prawns, beef with scallions, fish-flavored eggplant, and essential vegetables, salted vegetable hearts, and yam cordyceps flower chicken soup for one chicken.


    "Why is it so rich today?" Chen Qiyun asked curiously.


    In addition to the above delicious meals, I actually opened a bottle of coconut milk, which looked like a holiday.


    She couldn''t help but look at Li Beixing, muttering to herself, could it be specially prepared for Teacher Li?


    You should know that you usually don’t have such a sumptuous meal at home.


    It''s more abundant than the last time Teacher Li came here!


    The difference is really obvious, Chen Jingle, you guy who forgets your true feelings when you see sex!


    Aren''t you afraid that I will beat your son in the future?


    "Your brother rushed to the sea to save people that day, and he came later and was awarded a certificate of bravery."


    Li Beixing smiled and helped explain first.


    "Really?!" Chen Qiyun widened her eyes and left all the complaints just now.


    Chen Jingle nodded: "Yeah, so I decided to celebrate."


    "It''s not bad, it''s time to celebrate!"


    Chen Qiyun is also honored. After all, she witnessed the whole process on site at that time. Although she did not participate directly, as a witness and her elder brother, isn’t it right to be happy?


    She felt proud and raised the disposable paper cup containing coconut milk in front of her: "Come on, let''s cheer for Comrade Chen Jingle, cheers!"


    Chen Jingle: "..." Speaks silent.


    Li Beixing burst out laughing, but also picked up the cup: "Well, come on, cheers~!"


    Seeing this, Chen Jingle had to pick up the cup silently. But after drinking a drink, he smiled relieved.


    It is a good thing to be a role model for the little guy, why bother with so much trouble!


    "Okay, get up on the chopsticks!"


    He spent a lot of effort on lunch today.


    Li Beixing was already impatient, but because of his face and habit cultivation, he did not show his urgent side.


    She has gradually gotten used to the taste of Chen Jingle''s food. When she tastes what Aunt Wang cooked at home, she will always subconsciously compare it with it, which feels almost interesting.


    As for the food outside, let alone.


    Therefore, wanting to eat what Chen Jingle made every day has become a very important and even the most important goal at the moment.


    She was very clear about this and was to work towards this goal!


    As for how to work harder next...


    She had already thought about it.


    Humph, take it, Chen Jingle!


    …


    The video of Chen Jingle being brave and brave in his actions spread widely, and even some relatives at home were exposed.


    After they get it, it is basically equivalent to all relatives getting it.


    Without any surprise, my parents called back and asked what was going on.


    Chen Jingle is the only seedling in the family, so naturally there can be no accidents.


    Chen Jingle had to explain patiently: "It''s actually a small thing. There''s no danger. I just threw the lifebuoy over, let someone catch it and pull her back. The sea water has receded. They just think I have a good image and asked me to cooperate with the publicity. Change? Your son, I go to bed early and get up early every day and insist on exercising. Isn''t it normal for changes to happen? In addition, the camera now has more or less beauty effects. Don''t worry, it''s okay! Well, I''ll pay attention next time..."


    After listening to his explanation, my parents finally felt relieved.


    This is indeed a very long-faced thing for parents to be able to receive a son’s municipal commendation. And he also got a bonus.


    At their age, they basically put all their hopes on their sons and grandchildren.


    Chen Jingle has been their pride since he was a child. Although he has not taken root in a big city, there is nothing wrong with returning to his hometown. Now he has no worries about food and clothing. If he insists on saying that there are still any regrets, it is undoubtedly a marriage matter.


    But they also knew that Chen Jingle didn''t like to listen to them talking about this topic, so they simply stopped talking about it.


    As for the videos forwarded by relatives in the large family group and the videos that echoed him...


    Chen Jingle thought of what Li Beixing said in the morning, "the lack of identity and security" problem, and this time he became much calmer.


    He is exercising his subjective initiative as much as possible to eliminate that awkward sense of shame.


    Whether a thing can be done well is the determination to win and the right goal.


    afternoon,


    Chen Jingle began to learn psychology-related courses.


    Do it as you say it!


    Psychology is a very broad concept. From the perspective of professional introduction, psychology mainly studies human psychological phenomena and their mental functions and behavioral activities under its influence. It involves many fields such as perception, cognition, emotions, thinking, personality, behavioral habits, interpersonal relationships, and social relations. It is also related to many areas of daily life such as family, education, health, and society.


    It mainly describes, explains and predicts its psychological activities by observing human behaviors and expressions.


    In addition, psychology is also related to disciplines such as neuroscience, medicine, philosophy, biology, and religious teaching, because the physiological or psychological effects discussed in these disciplines will affect the individual''s mind.


    For example, common depression, bipolar disorder, etc., seem to be mental illnesses, but in fact they already belong to the category of mental illnesses.


    Chen Jingle is now watching "Psychology and Life".


    This textbook is a basic compulsory course in several domestic colleges and universities that evaluate A+ grade psychology disciplines.


    There are also "History and Schools of Psychology", "General Psychology", "Social Psychology", etc., which are all in his next book list.


    Learn, just learn!


    The sea of ??knowledge is endless and hard to make a boat!


    Now, after his brain has been strengthened by the system, it is much easier to use than before. After reading it once or twice, he can basically remember the content of the textbook. Is there anything happier than this?


    He was only able to reach this threshold when his intelligence was at its peak at the age of 16.


    Now it''s easy.


    …


    The two-hour study course passed quickly.


    Just as Chen Jingle stretched and was about to exercise briefly before going to cook, Li Beixing sent a message.


    "Do you usually listen to Deng Shiying''s songs?"


    Chen Jingle was not sure about this, but he still replied: "Well, bubble? Light years away? WheredidUgo? I have heard the songs that are highly sang."


    He doesn''t chase stars, he just listens to music, and doesn''t even listen to it often. He is not a music enthusiast, but just listens whenever he wants to.


    Li Beixing said: "Isn''t she going to Jiangbei to hold a concert? I got two tickets. Do you want to go and watch it?"


    Concert?


    Chen Jingle was stunned and fell into thinking. It seemed that this was the case. He had seen it on shaking his hands before.


    (End of this chapter)