Chapter 408 Men and women are different


    "Didn''t you say you''re going to appreciate the flowers? You''ll be back so soon?"


    Mrs. Xin looked at her girl, "Is the scenery not good?"


    Xin An smiled and stepped forward, "I am thinking about the termite nest in the house. I want to see how powerful termites can build nests at home."


    Mrs. Xin put down the booklet in her hand and nodded seriously, "The house is too big and termites are cunning. I haven''t noticed it before."


    Facing Xin An''s disapproving gaze, Mrs. Xin took her hand and sat down, "Huaijiang is not as good as the capital. The capital is at the foot of the emperor. Many things cannot be done too much. We have to worry about a reputation. Look at Huaijiang, which family treats guests without a beauty."


    "It''s not that your brother is watching. I don''t know how many people want to send the beauty to my son-in-law. Our Xin family has a good son-in-law. Then the Huang family and Han family are so envious. Don''t they have such a mind?"


    "Putting aside these things, young couples are not suitable for long-term separation. If you have a long separation, you will have problems. Is my mother a veteran, can she harm you?"


    "I live like an old couple at a young age and lose my desire. How can I live this life?"


    In Mrs. Xin''s eyes, the relationship between husband and wife needs to be carefully maintained. Unless such relationships are mixed with interests, sometimes they even need some tricks. "I know that the son-in-law treats you well, but you should not take it lightly. It is common for ordinary people to have three wives and four concubines, let alone the Marquis'' Mansion?"


    "How many concubines does your father-in-law have?"


    "Even Tang Rong has three concubines in a year after getting married. Although his son-in-law has not had these thoughts so far, it is hard to guarantee that he will not have them in the future. This is the world. What can you do if he really has that thought?"


    "When you talk about this, you must be more scrupulous. Don''t be too strong. Living between husband and wife is not the east wind overwhelming the west wind. Occasionally, it is not embarrassing to retreat to advance."


    In the past, the couple was far away in the capital, and Mrs. Xin couldn''t see their relationship. This time she came back and observed silently for a few days and found that her girl still had the upper hand. Her son-in-law was considerate and thoughtful everywhere. Although it was a good thing, she also discovered some problems.


    Especially when Wang''s mother-in-law is still on the side, as long as she is a mother-in-law, she hopes that her daughter-in-law will be gentle and kind to her son. She can''t stand her daughter-in-law and acts as a mighty person in front of her. "Your mother-in-law is good to you now, so you should seize the opportunity. You have to be more considerate to your husband in front of her."


    "Why are they good to you? They are not just counting on you to be nice to their son? You have to make her feel that it is worth it to be nice to you."


    "You have to learn from your father in this regard. You have suffered losses, but in fact you have gained a lot of benefits. People are willing to deal with him. Remember one thing, let the other party feel that he has taken advantage of it and that the other party feels that he is overwhelming you, so that you can get the greatest benefit. Don''t be arrogant and don''t be arrogant when you don''t have enough skills."


    Mrs. Xin was very thoughtful, and Xin An listened to it. I have to say that she always seems to be in a higher position when getting along with her husband and wife, and occasionally treats Tang Mo as a subordinate. She should indeed change it.


    "I''ve written it down."


    Mrs. Xin nodded with satisfaction, "Mom knows that you are a person who can listen to advice. Some words are not good, but we women are already weak. If you want to live a good life, you must spend more time."


    Xin An smiled and said, "Mom is right. Someone told me that I might not listen, but I can listen to what my mother said. Who told me that my father could linger in the flowers all day long and not touch the leaves? There is only mother at home."


    A big salt merchant often gives beauty, but her father can keep his mind rational, and in addition to himself, he also has the role her mother plays in it.


    He got up while joking, "Do you need my help in getting married?"


    "No, your sister''s ceremony is that we will hang red silk tomorrow, and the Zhou family will come to show off the dowry in the future. In a few days, my mother will also have a daughter-in-law." ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????


    Xin An suddenly asked, "Mom, if Tang Mo loses me, I will use up all my tricks and cannot turn the world around, what should I do?"


    This is a problem that trapped her in her previous life, and she never found a solution in this life.


    Mrs. Xin pulled her down and talked about the difference between men and women. "There are different men and women in this world. Men are born with many. Even in the poorest families, men have the right to control a woman''s life, and women are born with a lot of injustice."


    "Many women live a bad life in their parents'' homes and do not receive respect when they go to their in-laws'' homes. There are many reasons for this, but the most important thing lies in the women themselves."


    "Do you know what is the difference between a woman''s heart and a man''s heart and a man''s heart and a man''s heart?"


    Xin An shook his head, and Mrs. Xin sighed, "It''s also a blaming mother for not explaining it thoroughly to you before you got married."


    "Once a woman is infected with love, she will hand over everything without reservation, send it to the man without reservation, confuse everything, big and small love intertwines all emotions, becoming anxious, suspicious, suspicious, and regardless of the consequences, personally weaves a cage to imprison herself, and tortures her in pain."


    "The difference between men is that they can tell you clearly. They are very clear and please you in love, but this does not prevent him from using you to achieve his goals, nor does it prevent him from climbing up as a stepping stone and finally kicking you away. You must remember that in the hearts of most men, the word "lift" is far more important than love."


    "House and wife get along is also a game. Whoever gives all the feelings first will lose. You cannot give him the chance to lose. Even if you lose, what you have to do is not make a fuss, but to take back everything you have paid, reduce your losses at the greatest possible level and protect yourself."


    "You must also believe that your parents only have two children, you and your brother. You will never watch any of you be bullied. You have a family!"


    Xin''an''s nose felt sore, and he thought of the help his parents had helped her in his previous life. He smiled and leaned his head on her mother''s shoulder. "It''s said that the water splashed out by her married daughter, and what she said was really touching."


    I didn’t know that her mother understood men so much.


    She didn''t understand, so she was defeated in her previous life.


    She has understood it vaguely in this life, but has not yet understood it.


    "Sister, why are you here? My brother-in-law is looking for you everywhere."


    Xin Huan came back with great strides and was surprised to see the mother and daughter, "What''s wrong? I''m still hugging her here?"


    Xin An looked at him with a smile, "Mom is feeling that she is going to be a mother-in-law, and she said you will grow up in the blink of an eye."


    Xin Huan had no doubt at all and smiled and leaned over, "Mom, after I marry my wife, I will be filial to you, you should be happy."


    "When my father and I go out to do business, we can have someone to talk to you at home, and we will have someone to accompany you when we go out shopping, and we will have some fun watching the show."


    Xin Huan really likes the Zhou girl. In the past two days, he heard those friends talk about many troubles after marriage, especially the fight between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. He felt scared when he heard it.


    (This chapter ends)